Is Work Affecting How Well You Connect with Your Spouse?

Poor communication skills are a massive contributory factor to marriages breaking down. This is especially true when you add in all the distractions that life throws at us each and every day especially if both of you are working. How will you strengthened your communication as a married couple?

Once the kids are in bed you flop down next to your spouse and ask, “How was your day?” They reply, “Good.” They may go into detail or they may not. You may forget that you even asked the question while zoning out.

This person that you’re building a life with is pretty important. You know that. But after a long work day, getting the kids bathed and in bed, plus cleaning up the house a bit, your left with little energy to connect with your spouse. The same goes for them, too. You love each other, but you’re working parents. You’re exhausted.

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Regardless of your energy levels you need each other. You’re in this life together until death do you part. So to help strengthen your bond here are six ways you can connect with your spouse regardless of how exhausted you are from your quadruple workload.

1. Ask Open-Ended Questions to Invoke Conversation

A close-ended question will result in a one-word response like “Okay” or “Fine”. We may use it as a warm-up for an in-depth conversation we’d like to start but instead, skip it. Get straight to the point and don’t waste your time and energy.

Read more: https://www.thespruce.com/is-work-affecting-how-well-you-connect-with-your-spouse-4138231

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